A thought, a theory, a vent?

A theory about people...

In essence, people do what they WANT to do. Everyone will make time for the things that are important to them. Whether this is a person, a relationship or a job. When people are "busy" they are really saying that they are doing the things that are most important to them at the time. I mean as busy as I ever am, I always make time for the things that count. People count, friendships count, boyfriends count, family counts!

I read "hes just not that into you" YEARS ago.. and recently watched the movie, which by the way I didn't like :) But that theory really is true. if a guy isnt making an effort or going out of their way for you they dont like you enough. (People make time for the the things that are important to them.) Therefore you shouldnt waste your time. We as women make up excuses about how our men are " going though a hard time" or they are "busy" with their all important jobs. This is all bullshit. If a person really wants to be around you they will. They will make the time, The End. If a person is super busy and has a craving for an ice cream cone they will make time to go out and get it. If that ice cream will make them happy at that exact moment they will make time for it. People do what they want to do, not that hard to understand.

This theory is super simple and its something I have always thought. I am not perfect by any means and at times I got caught up in the "excuses" that we tell ourselves about relationships. (This includes friendships too) Oh they are busy, their job is important, they went away for the weekend. Hello!!?? They did those things because it was important to them. If you weren't involved in any of those things that sucks, but has reality set in yet?

Bottom Line... people make time for things that are important to them... people make time for the things that make them happy....

just a thought...